Wondering......

It seems since the initiation of seperation a few years ago has led to an unyeildingly busy life figting for visitation and custody with my ex, dealing again with a cocaine addiction, finding the love of my life and new wife amidst the chaos. But wait, there's more. :) There have been many turns of events through the tumultuous times of seperation, divorce, and custody. Sadly, like so many others, this is also carried into my second marriage. Fortunately, both of us are aware of the "brought forth" backage and work through much of it as it comes. Sometimes fun and sometimes not fun but in the end, it only strengthens our relationship and resolve for each other.

Well, back to the subject header.......

I'm hoping that this blog may reach others offering some insight, understanding, and compassion for some of the sh*t divorced fathers have to work through. Although, everybody's story is going to a variable, I'm certain there will be commonalities and will share my story in this forum as the need arises to write. In any event, in large part I'm hoping to add some healing to me. Lord knows I can always use a little more.

So, I'll introduce myself as Pooh, a beloved character by me since childhood and I think my personal character is close to that of Pooh and my wonderful wife and best friend is Piglet. The ex is Cruella and the name is certainly fitting given the circumstances. There are primarily 2 children involved, Eeyore (boy 10yrs) and Rue (girl 7yrs), that are.....well, the apples of my eye and more importantly, my heart.

This concludes a brief intro and will post more later.